Why do people hate other people?

I understand that there are always going to be people that are not happy no matter what happens in their life. I can even understand that sometimes people are going to be in a bad mood and say something bad about a person that has "wronged" them. What I don’t understand is why some people are filled with enough hate that they constantly run people into the ground for no good reason.
I know several people that will pick a person and then mine for dirty details about that person (and make up the dirty details when they can’t find any) and then gossip about that person to everyone they know. It’s sick. Why can’t these people get a life and learn to get along with everyone, even if they for some reason don’t like the person.
I have no resepect for a person that runs someone into the ground. We as people have no right to put down someone else because we don’t like them. We simply don’t have any room to talk. We all have faults and we all have a person out there that would just love to start all sorts of wicked rumors about us. So, what’s the difference between the people that run people into the ground and the people that remain civil and avoid gossip? It’s pretty simple, the civil person has grace and compassion for others and understands that no one is perfect.
So, to everyone out there that loves to pass on the juicy gossip just remember that those people you’re passing it along to are probably talking just as negatively about you.
Sorry to rant, but I’m sure some people need to hear this…


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2 responses to “Why do people hate other people?”

  1. BlackMage Avatar
    BlackMage

    Evan. i see youve done a great job with this site- your formats have improved vastly from when you first started – good for you.
    i read what you wrote about people running other people into the ground.
    sometimes it helps to just avoid that person at all costs and carry on with your life as if they didnt exist. Works for me. Its sad to see that Living Dead was taken down – it showed great promise. My only regret is that all of us couldnt see eye to eye on certain subjects. But hey, thats what makes you guys so interesting. 😉
    Well, you stay cool Evan. Until our paths cross again ol boy….
    Yours ever so Truly, BlackMage

  2. Ray Ray Avatar
    Ray Ray

    I understand what you’re trying to say but I disagree with the no respect part for the person who’s being so savage. I have many friends like that. Instead of allowing your self-esteem to tear down, learn to build from people of that status. Everyone is different. Some people feel a need to do gossipy damage to others. You are only themn hurting yourself to concern yourself enough to have no respect for them. You can have respect and not be nice at the same time, so its not a matter of being friendly. Well I left this for you because I care,
    Ray RAy

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